Parents

For parents of special needs children, I honor you today.

I witness your strength every day in clinic.

You rise to meet challenges that many cannot begin to imagine, truly. You navigate medical appointments, therapy sessions, school meetings, and the unpredictable rhythms that come with raising a child with special needs.

Often without pause, without adequate rest, and without the recognition you deserve. For those single parents carrying this day to day reality, a double level of gratitude for you.

I want to pause for a moment and say what is too rarely said: you are extraordinary. Truly extraordinary.

Your love is not passive, it is an active force. It shows up at 2 AM when a child can’t sleep, in the quiet patience during a meltdown, in the persistence to advocate for services in a dysfunctional system requiring resilience summoned when the system says “no” but you know your child needs a “yes.”

These are acts of courage, devotion, and hope.

The road you walk is often steep and lonely, but please know you are not alone. There is a community of people, clinicians, therapists, teachers, neighbors, who see your efforts and want to support you. We may not always have perfect solutions, but we have a deep respect for the work you do, the love you carry, and the strength you embody.

Your child’s journey is unique, but so is yours. And every day that you show up for them, you help write a story of possibility, dignity, and unshakable love.

With respect and gratitude,

Dr. M